Why do black women pick the wrong men, then blame the rest of black men for their bad decisions?

Sure some black men have problems, but most of us don't. How do you have a such a large segment of black women going for the wrong men? There are good black guys all around, and to be honest, black women aren't checking for those men when they are at dating age. Black women want good men when they damn near hit mid 30's approaching 40's. I consider myself a good black man, done everything I was supposed to do to get too where I"m at. I didn't get the type of attention I deserved for my efforts when I was younger, but the azzhole about to drop out of school got so much azz and attention even after he dropped out of school. I didn't see black women complaining when their drug dealing boyfriend was making money, but as soon as he got locked up, all of a sudden you want to call him a loser. Those guys burn though black women and leave them bitter as hell, and you expect to take that animosity into relationships with black men that didn't have anything to do with it. And why would any girl concentrate on dumb black men and say he did this and he did that to you? What the hell was going through you mind when you was messing with the dude, you got exactly what you signed up for. Geez some people.