My good girlfriend is in this horrific situation...her husband became severly brain damaged due to an accident

Now people have CRITICIZED HER FOR PUTTING HIM IN A HOME...I do not get that because she was unable to care for him...when she had two little children to raise ALONE...I mean she made the best choice for her and the kids...I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE criticism.?????..because NONE OF US WOULD WANT TO BE IN HER SITUATION...I know i would NOT...It is toooooo brutal...Remember we would have to walk in her shoes in order to judge her...What is your take on that?