The jerk husband again?

I swear I am going to go nuts... I come home after grocery shopping (which I never get half money for by the way) and we just had moved into a new house. The kitchen is a wreck again (guess who left that mess?) and as I opened the fridge to put stuff in, he has huge boxes in the freezer (meanwhile we have a freezer downstairs) and I cant put anything in. Then, I go down into basement (as I am not lazy and walking 20 steps is not too much for me, despite severe osteoarthritis in my hips) and the freezer is off. He hooked up the lights in the basement somehow to the washer and unbenowst to me, the freezer also. All the food was rotten and gone. He left me a message a while ago, saying oops sorry i am not sure if the freezer food is bad (meanwhile it smelled like something died in there) so even though I am supposed to be working, I have to empty out the freezer, lug all food upstairs, put in trash. Then, he's at his dad's now doing god knows what while the lawn looks like sh**.